How to Talk Dirty in Bed Explained by a Sexual Educator
They might not have the language to tell you why it bothered them in the moment, but if you get the sense that you pushed things too far, definitely talk about it later. Now that we’ve sold you on the gift of gab, let’s talk through a few ways to elevate your dirty talk game. Sex is fun, adventurous, funny, messy, and everything in between. If you feel your words are too cheesy, laugh it off and continue.
- By using dirty talk in more subtle, indirect ways, your man will never be quite sure what you mean and as a result, he will end up constantly thinking about you and what you said.
- Second, you do you boo, but I am not getting involved in this Shakespearean tragedy.
- Let’s face it – a lot of guys like to have their egos stroked.
Dirty things to say during sex.
If you want to skip straight to the 85 dirty talk phrases, feel free, but if you first want to know why you need to talk dirty to him, just keep scrolling along. If you find yourself at a loss for words, there’s an easy remedy. Start narrating what you’re doing to your partner’s body and how they make you feel.
Get comfortable talking about sex outside the bedroom.
Or, maybe you want to try it as a way to spice things up in the sexy department. After setting the mood with texts, you should take things higher with dirty talk during sex. Words like “You taste really good,” “I’m wet/hard for you,” and “Cum for me” can make your partner know how much you’re having a great time. You can either yell or whisper these short sentences to your heart’s content. For many people, the details make dirty talk a huge turn-on.
Start by expressing your desires or compliments during intimate moments in more straightforward, less intimidating ways. You can also try texting as a less direct approach to ease into dirty talk, gradually increasing your comfort level. Communication with your partner about your feelings towards dirty talk can also help.
You will see that they are split up into three categories – Teasing, Pre-sex, During Sex, and Post-Sex – so you can play up any stage of the process. Knowing this ahead of time, he will also be extra encouraging and responsive when you make the effort, which will make you feel safer, while doubling the excitement between you. Any man wants to know that he has the power to satisfy you like no one else.
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Eventually, it will feel natural and get hotter and more intense. Dirty talk to me, in my experience, when done right is always fantastic, and always heightens the mood… and I will be honest with you. That’s how important it is to communicate what you are both sexually comfortable with. This is something that should be an integral part to all sexual relationships. I love asking my girlfriend what she likes, and pleasuring her is one of the highlights of my relationship.
After you call her names while inside of her, hold her tight and tell her how you worship the ground she walks on. And never call her a slut outside of dirty talk. Although all of these questions are sexually oriented, you don’t have to say outrageously sexual things to arouse him and build sexual tension. Let’s face it – guys are pretty easily aroused anyway. A lot of men and women who enjoy dirty talking may be too embarrassed to reveal this deviant secret.
After all, using props or experimenting with power dynamics can do wonders for the atmosphere in the bedroom, but, again, it’s vital to make sure everyone is both comfortable and happy at all times. To take things to the next level, individuals could also experiment with power dynamic play. For those trying it out for the first time, you can experiment with the dynamic that suits them. However, for more advanced people, there could be a role reversal of dominant and submissive dynamics or even a power dynamic shift during the encounter. A little nervous laughter is fine, but sometimes, you might say something that triggers your partner.
Then, those feelings will carry over into your sex life. You may then come up with your own naughty phrases. All of the dirty talking phrases we’ll share with you are based on your own sexual confidence.